So it’s that time of night again, and you’ve been plotting. You want to make your partner writhe in ecstasy, and you know just the thing to do it.
There are many names for it – cunnilingus, muff diving, carpet munching, eating out, or just good ole fashioned head. That’s right, you’re going to give your girl head.
But as you stop kissing her neck and move slowly down her body – giving her nipple a good suck on the way – and you find your head moving closer and closer to the Holy Grail between her thighs, you pause.
How are you going to start? Is your tongue moist enough? Do you just jump straight to the clit?
Before you psych yourself out of giving your partner the pleasure she deserves, remember that these four tips will keep you right on track to give her a mind-blowing orgasm.
Her Pussy is Going To Taste Like Pussy
First things, first. When the tip of your tongue makes contact with the wet, throbbing center of her pussy I want you to remember one thing: it is going to taste like pussy.
It isn’t going to taste like ice cream, it isn’t going to taste like Filet Mignon.
Don’t make comments on her smell, don’t ask if she douches regularly (which by the way, she probably shouldn’t), and don’t make faces.
Your girl is a woman – a real life, in the flesh, human female – and she is going to taste like a woman should: a clean, healthy human being.
So if you’re committed to doing this for her (and we both know you are), then let yourself enjoy the heady scent of her arousal and revel in the fact that it was you that made her feel that good.
Let Your Tongue Do The Talking
Now that you’re mentally and physically ready to make your woman scream your name, it’s time to talk technique. Will you start off slow and teasing? Will you go wild and fast, sending her spiraling in a barrage of sensation?
Whatever you choose to do, you best believe your tongue is going to play a major role.
Some folks swear by the “ABC’s” method, where you trace each letter from A to Z onto the clitoris and clitoral hood. Others choose to “talk” to their partner, where they let their tongue move on their partner’s clit while speaking or humming onto her pussy, giving a kind of vibrating sensation as well!
For others who don’t like playing by rules though, there’s always the option of just letting loose. Sticking out your tongue and letting your tongue go wild in no particular pattern can drive her into ecstasy as well, the messier the better!
The Clit Ain’t All There Is
Before you get too focused on the clit, though, zoom out and take note of all the other sensitive parts of your woman’s pussy. You’ve got the outer labia lips, the inner labia lips, and her grand entrance itself. Don’t forget to give them the attention they deserve either!
The inner labia lips are the more delicate of the two pairs; don’t be afraid to lightly suck on them (or to be a bit rougher if that’s what your lady commands!).
Additionally, some women like the feeling of your tongue slipping inside of them, so remember to give her a good tongue fucking from time to time as well!
Your Fingers Are Your Friends
For your and her sake, use your fingers too! Using your fingers to pleasure her, while you occupy yourself with other parts of her busy gives you a moment to rest your tongue and lips.
There is nothing quite like the sensation of one, two, or even three fingers thrusting into you while your man’s tongue is busy making love to your clit.
If you’ve still got plenty energy left to go though, take a brief moment to drop some kisses or light nibbles on the sensitive skin around her pussy. Pause to tease her or to talk dirty while your finger fucking her.
So, when you’re in the thick of it – your girl’s quivering pussy is barely an inch from your mouth and you’re leaning in ready to go – you’ll not only have your game plan ready, but a few surprises to throw in as well.
When she’s arching her back off the mattress screaming your name, you know you’ve eaten her out the way any great woman deserves.