It is such a simple thing to deny ourselves the pleasure of our own desires. We tell ourselves we don’t have time, that our sexual needs aren’t a priority, or even that we are above our own fantasies. However, giving in to that kink you’ve been hiding may just be one of the healthiest activities you can do.
In case you aren’t immediately sold though, here are four more reasons why you should give in to your kinky side.
Kinks Are Entrancing
Have you ever masturbated to the fantasy of being whipped by your partner’s belt, or to the thought of being stripped nude and left hogtied? Perhaps you have discovered your love for cock worship, and you yearn to be on all fours, waiting for your partner to slide his dick down your throat.
If you have ever orgasmed just from the thought of cum leaking from your well-fucked pussy, or convinced your partner to crawl to you on command just for the chance to touch your ankle, congratulations!
You have just witnessed the power of kink.
Kinks are not just passing sexual preferences, but enduring sex symbols that allow us to express our inner desires. Like a shot of pure adrenaline, indulging your kink will have your heart pumping, your body flushed and hungry, and your mind ready to do what it takes to satisfy that hunger.
Kinks Are A Powerful Display of Intimacy
For anyone who has considered divulging their kink to another, you already know how nerve-wracking an ordeal it can be. Even when discussing your kink with a trusted lover, fears of being rejected or ridiculed can be a real obstacle in sharing.
How a person wants to fuck (or be fucked) can reveal insight into their past experiences and into the more unique aspects of their personality.
Perhaps, then, it is your kink – not your eyes – that are the true window to the soul. The level of trust shown by not only revealing your kink but engaging in kink-related activities with someone you trust cannot be understated.
Kinky Sex Is Like Going on an Adventure
Exploring a kink often requires that you suspend your disbelief, your judgement and your insecurities. Doing something as simple as wearing a blindfold during sex can become a surprisingly emotional experience.
You might have forgotten your fear of the dark until your partner’s tie is secured at the back of your head, no light to be seen as your partner grind’s and bounces on your cock.
You might discover that you have a much higher pain tolerance than you previously thought. Or, contrary to what you believed before, you don’t like being made to bark like a dog or to lick the heel of your partner’s boot.
A lot of kink exploration is about finding both what leaves your panties soaking and what is an instant turn-off.
Let the adventurous part of yourself take the reins. Even if you don’t consider yourself to have a kink right now, one good night of heart-pounding sex might just change your mind.
Kinks Are Just Great Fun
We spend so much of our days at work that we often become our working facade. We take home our stress, forgetting our capacity to have a moment free of micromanaged schedules, stress, and responsibility.
Kinks allow us a moment to be who we dream we could be. Whether that means being the sexy librarian ready to punish loud “patrons” or crawling around like a cat and cuddling with your loving “owner”, you can fully be yourself when indulging in your kink.
