Admit it. The idea of your partner flushed and moaning as you count their fifth spank has crossed your mind. Or maybe you’re the one looking for a “punishment” you’ve been fantasizing about all week. Well, it’s time you made that fantasy a reality!
For anyone who has considered dabbling in BDSM or indulging their inner sadomasochist, spanking is something you have got to try.
With spanking in your arsenal, you will always be ready for a night you and your sore bottom won’t forget!
Spanking Is A Great Way To Explore New Sensations
Adventurers-at-heart knows that the most awe-inspiring part of any venture is the new experiences. The best part about spanking is how varied an experience it can be. Many people stick to slapping their partner’s buttocks, but don’t forget that the thighs, breasts, stomach – even the penis and the vulva – are begging for your attention as well!
Experimenting with different intensities is great fun, especially if you and your partner are already exploring your pain tolerances.
Some people just like hearing the sound of skin slapping against skin and don’t pay much attention to the feeling of being spanked. Others like it hard; the stronger the spanking, the better.
Whatever your pleasure, the rush of endorphins following a stinging spank just might send you to orgasmic heights you never knew existed.
Spanking Is Assertive Foreplay
Feeling aroused, you playfully swat your partner’s behind as they cook dinner. Unbeknownst to you, they’ve got plans to bend you over their knee and spank you too!
Spanking will deliver a delightful shock to anyone’s system that lets them know exactly what you are thinking. It’s also a great option for those interested in straight-to-the-point foreplay.
If it’s been a while since you’ve been intimate with your partner, spanking can offer a break from routine. For those who have always been shy about initiating sex, spanking can offer a decisively erotic and assertive action that cuts past that nervousness.
Either way, you’ll be hungry for more when a few well-placed slaps leave you a trembling mess of arousal.
Keep that in mind the next time your partner lifts something heavy with ease and you’re imagining other ways they could put that strength to use!
Spanking is the Spice of Life
Maybe you’re still a bit hesitant: pain isn’t something you’ve ever enjoyed, so why would you want to feel it while riding your partner?
The best part is it doesn’t have to hurt (unless you want it to). You can use spanking as a non-verbal signal that you like what your partner is doing, or that you love the way they look while doing it.
Even when there is pain involved, it may be different than you expected. Spanking is less obnoxious paper cut, and more like spiciness in your favorite dish.
Spice so hot it makes you salivate certainly isn’t for everyone. What may be an everyday amount of spice for one person could be a “special occasion” amount for someone else as well.
Unique preferences and tolerances mean you can make spanking what you want it to be.
Throw in a light spanking whenever you want an added zing of sensation that leaves tingles and increased sensitivity in its wake. Ask your partner to be more heavy-handed if you’re the type that likes so much spice your eyes water.
Remember, you can add as much or as little as you like, as strong as you like, to taste.