Let’s talk about nipples for a moment. Yes, those peaks that sit unassuming on your chest, absent from your mind except when you are so aroused (or cold) that they harden enough to cut stone.
Everyone’s got them. That’s the wonderful thing about nipple play and – for those of us that like a little pain with our pleasure – nipple torture. Everyone’s got the bits and bobbles necessary to thoroughly enjoy it.
Nipple play may not be for everyone – certainly some people have more sensitive nipples than others, just as some like the idea of playing with them more than others. However, its allure and potential to be enjoyed by all makes nipple play worthy of being the subject of our first ever fetish spotlight.
Behind The Fetish
Alongside the genitalia, the neck, and the feet, nipples are one of the most sensitive places on the human body. While sensitivity may vary from person to person, their importance as sites for intense sexual stimulation should not be understated.
Nipple play is focused primarily on not only the stimulation of the nipples, but often on the enjoyment and “worship” of nipples themselves. This fetish especially attracts those already fascinated by breasts, as well as those whose primary turn on is the sight, feel, or interaction with nipples.
There’s a wide variety of ways to stimulate the nipples, from sucking on them to pinching them. You can twist them or lick them, tug on them or gently rub them. Hell, for those looking for something more intense than a soft caress, you can slap the nipples as well!
Of course, not everyone is in it for the shock and awe of nipple torture. For those who want to experience something new without all the pinching and twisting involved, using feathers or other soft material to tickle the nipples will be a strange but delightful change.
If you’re really get into it, add honey, chocolate syrup, or any other item you can drizzle on your partner’s chest. The delicious, sticky mess that results will give you more than enough reason to lick your partner clean. Just remember to give the right amount of attention to your partner’s nipples that will be just begging to be sucked.
In addition to the naughty fun you can get up to with just your fingers and tongue, don’t forget the assortment of toys you can choose to play with as well! There are vibrators designed specifically to stimulate nipples, and it will be a treat for both you and your partner to try.
For those more interested in the erotic torture variant of this fetish, there are dedicated toys to play with as well. Try nipple clamps if you find yourself developing a taste for pinched, sore nipples. Nipple clamps come with varying degrees of pressure.
If the nipple clamps on the market aren’t quite your style though, invest in some clothespins. They are strong enough to make you jump from the pain, sturdy enough to stay put, and cheap enough they won’t break the bank.
In addition to nipple clamps, though, there are weights you can attach to them for greater pressure. If you liked the idea of slapping your partners nipples (or having your own slapped), investing in a fetish whip may be perfect for you!