So you and your partner have been experimenting a bit. He is discovering his love for the way you look in leather and you’ve decided sucking him off is kinda fun. For him, buying leather is a pretty simple endeavor. But perfecting the art of the blowjob, for your and his pleasure, isn’t quite so easy.
Perhaps you are just beginning to perform oral on your man. Or maybe, you’ve known for years about your love of giving head. Regardless, these four tips are sure to rock both your worlds.
#1. Look Up
It’s easy to get lost in the mechanics of it all. After all you have a lot to pay attention to: where your teeth are, how fast or slow to move, what angle feels best… But while you’re perfecting your technique, remember you have an audience!
When he sees you on all fours between his legs, mouth open and eyes trained on him, he might just lose control in the best way. The come hither look you give him will only make him more excited to see the length of his penis disappear down your throat. So watch out, this one’s powerful! But if you find you’re quickly becoming a fan of deepthroating, it will be oh so worth it.
#2. Touch Yourself
I’m serious on this one. When something the size of your partner’s penis is sliding in and out of your throat, your gag reflex will kick in. To dull the reflex, one extremely pleasurable (and effective) trick is to reach in between your legs and masturbate.
If he is the type to grab a fistful of hair and guide your movements, try rubbing your clit in time with his thrusts. Maybe his hands are tied behind his back while you’re sucking him off. In that case, tease him a bit! Be as leisurely with your pace as you are with your own pleasure.
Whatever your desire, masturbating can help you relax and will give you a new appreciation for the oral experience .
#3. Trust Your Partner
When you are deepthroating someone, the ability to trust your partner goes a long way. Knowing your partner’s capacity for restraint, how dedicated they are to your safety, and how comfortable you are can determine how pleasurable an experience you have while going down on your partner.
A conversation on soft and hard limits can help increase trust. Choosing a safe signal – for when your mouth is otherwise occupied – can also help you become more comfortable with deepthroating. Talk with your partner about things they can do to help you relax, whether it is running his fingers through your hair or whispering sweet nothings to you as you hollow out your cheeks and suck.
#4: Try a New Position
You’ve already planned it out: you fall to your knees, licking your lips and sticking out your tongue as your partner unzips his pants. As arousing as this picture is, however, deepthroating can be done in other positions as well.
Many people find that lying on your back while leaning your head over the side of a bed or table offers the best angle for deepthroating. The 69-position can also be an awesome position, not only because it allows his penis to enter your throat at a more comfortable angle, but because you’ll be best positioned to get some oral loving from him as well.
Whatever position you try, keep your own comfort in mind, because both of you might be busy for a while.
