Picture this: it’s date night. As the time to go out draws closer, your partner becomes all you can think about. You’re going to kiss them here, you’re going to leave a mark or two there, and – most importantly – you’re going to love them into next week.
But hold on! The night is still young and your reservation at that respectable Italian place down the street certainly won’t tolerate any funny business. So what’s a sensual individual like yourself to do?
I’ll let you in on a secret: seduction doesn’t always have to be physical. Whether there is a table in between or you just like to tease a little before diving in, there are four things you can do that’ll have your partner eager to please you too.
Say It with Your Eyes
We’ve all heard of love-at-first-sight. The two lovebirds come across each other and lock eyes, each one holding their breath, unable to move as the world falls around them falls away.
Turns out, there’s something to that whole eye contact thing. Sustained eye contact lets your partner know they are being heard. It lets them know you see them and truly want – no, need to connect with them.
So look into his eyes and let all that lusty goodness bubbling inside of you shine. Your partner will appreciate the gesture, and a willingness to be vulnerable is often the first step to a deliciously intimate night.
Wear What You Desire
Humans are visual creatures, which means turning on your partner can be as simple as picking the right outfit.
Maybe you have been considering a change in hairstyles, but you’ve been putting it off. Surprise them on date night with your sexy new look!
If you know she appreciates outfits that show off your toned backside or make-up that puts the spotlight on your soft, pouty lips, take the plunge and cater to what they like.
What you wear can communicate a lot with little effort, especially if you know what your partner likes, and there is nothing more thrilling than knowing the object of your affection simply cannot take their eyes off of you.
It may sound cliché but confidence is the most important asset you can have. Confidence shows an open playfulness, a sureness of self that men and women alike find irresistible.
This doesn’t mean you have to be act a certain way, or that you have to come off especially aggressive.
What it means is that you don’t let your worries get in the way of your fun, that you are comfortable with yourself and your partner to be direct about what you want. When you’re both on the same page, mind-blowing sex is often only a short conversation away after all.
Set the Mood
The difference between a regular date night and a ‘we-couldn’t-keep-our-hands-off-each-other’ night is a great atmosphere.
If you are going out, choose that place that decorates the tables with roses. Staying in? Splurge on candles and wine to enjoy in the bubble bath you two will be sharing.
Above all, don’t be afraid to get creative. Every couple is into different things, and you know what will work best for you both. A competitive game night for one couple can be as sexy as drunken intellectual conversation is for another.
As long as you both are happy, horny, and having fun, the details are yours to decide.